Apparently, much has happened with Nathan as seen online. He’s gone underground. Rumors of him being a millionaire for me is an exaggeration. As the back child support he’s had to pay over these decades is in the hundred of thousands. The crime of living off of the women he has in his cult is noted. One of the ladies has tried numerous times to get total back child support & that only one of over ten women she’s abandoned.
I’m making this short, as for me it’s the reality of the whole issue of Murdered & Missing girls & women..indigenous women have struggled to find their voices & on the brights side of there is a bright side is. The majority of the women who’ve left his cult or who were victims of his rape have healed. They’ve found their voices & are continuing to help other victims of this guy. I don’t call him a man cause he’s pedophile incapable of loving a woman his own age. His addiction to control women stems from his upbringing. As in all case, a submissive mother. It’s not not uncommon for indigenous to not have a voice & totally relay on their husband’s word. This control over a woman isn’t healthy. For a bit to witness his women were silenced is it it wonder why he is who he is.
The difference though in each generation is that there is support for women with other women. I’m grateful for most of his victims who found new lives in their lives. For some, their emotional abuse was so horrific they remain in & out of State hospitals on suicide watch.
People like him trying to silence their victims is historical & is now only being understood.
It is possible to regain or find your female voice. It’s possible for so many girls & women to know there’s hope in recovery from abuse.
I’m not perfect, neither are so many of us. The difference though is in the quality of education & the quality of life. The hardest thing for me over this decade is to face the reality that Nathan has destroyed so many women’s lives. It’s bad enough we face racism & discrimination from white supremacy. It’s bad enough indigenous women & girls are being hunted but to have our own Indigenous brother (Nathan) hunt is too. This is why I starting writing about him. Yes, there are many like him; however, he likes to think he the only one of his kind. And, maybe that is how he justifies his perversions.
I know there’s a problem with is. There’s a problem in trusting each other; however, it’s possible to have an intimate relationship with a married person. A relationship that is not sexual nor abusive. It’s possible to be accepted by their family has their parent’s friend & with the husband or wife knowing they have a trusting the friendship, relationship.
Throughout the decade I’ve had an opportunity to talk intimately with some very successful indigenous women. As we live & breathe our culture it’s impossible to find such a make companion who has strong boundaries. As it’s an understanding of friendship. Not a business friendship but rather a friendship where both parties he’ll each other.
This is where Nathan abuses so many young women who don’t have strong boundaries. For most, they started off being manipulated into thinking their friendship with Nathan would have strong boundaries only for him to cross them by raping them. It apart of rape culture, so is it any wonder why so many successful indigenous women don’t have an intimate non-sexual companion in friendship. A healthy friendship is one where your friend’s spouse knows you & his or her children also knows you. It’s trust!
So, the blessing in finding your voice is being able or allowing yourself to be intimate in a safe & protective relationship. I didn’t realize all the things I would learn about rape culture & prison culture. So, be safe &do protect yourself. People tend to become laterally violent when you or anyone speaks their truth.
Nathan for all the exotic narcissism is incapable of forming an intimate non-sexual relationship. He cannot help himself as it appears for his lust for virgin & submissive women only wants to control them. All you need to do is ask yourself to r realize he’s a product of being raised in a rape & prison culture.The shame he’s hidden so deep inside himself may never be healed or for that matter be cured.
It takes sacrifice to break this cycle & many have become educated & heslht who were raised in such an environment of genocide.
